Tuesday, July 27, 2010

Scavanger Hunt

My friends invited and kinda dragged me to this event. I am not a big competition person cause once I get in them I really do. Figures that everyone in my group doesn't know SF so let's hope that at least they are great with their Smart Phone cause we will need them. I mean really these questions are bewildering. Who the heck knows this?
Did I mention running is really not my favorite thing? Yet neither is being last, thus we race around the city stopping in order at the statues. Yet we do have to figure out their order first! Oye.
Which of course sends us around the whole park, ugh! I mean this is the first stop and we are getting a work out. It doesn't help that we all have to be in the picture.
Not sure why this was a stop, plus we ended up eating to go the subway across the street but hey they said to stop here. Hmm. Filler maybe?
After bowling we got one of the bonus q's done. It was really easy. Why people doubt me I don't know but not hard to get people from a Moscone conference to join in SF fun.
Now this is a random but so well deserved stop on the check point. I seriously love them for having us stop in here. While I am getting sick of this figuring out and running around I do not mind having to riddle dessert out.
Being in SF is famous for being 7 by 7 miles, as well as where gold is struck niners. Hence our football team is called the 49ers. A easy way to earn points, time whatever was have your picture taken with 49s.
We needed a fortune cookie, a person who spoke a different language and something written in another language. This was easy stop and even a fun one in China town. The sun was starting to come out, the atmosphere is completely different.
49's start to appear everywhere. It is easy to find places to stop and get our picture taken with one of these numbers.
Another 49! Yes and who cares if its fruits or an apartment. Ok I would have really loved it to have been the 49 bus. I kept my eyes peeled but we were not on their route.
Ms. J " I just can't run not in flip-flops" and she is right she can't. Leading me to say, "What want me to carry you?!" Naturally the answer was yes, and I ended up carrying her for a bit. This was with the understanding that the boys could keep up with me. Do you think they did? No not really. Here I am with a whole other human being piggy back, and I am not talking a toddler.
North Beach, the International Sport Club, where lefts face it we grabbed the drink. It was nice to hang out with other contestants out for fun. Plus we needed a rest break cause while I might be driving this mish mesh group my girl is down.
After our break we start adding in some of the other parts of the request the hunt had which were images of the Golden Gate Bridge. In this picture we have two!
Thankfully many people along the way helped us out in solve the clues or finding where they were. The silver man was one of the more interesting characters we ran into.
I finally was able to break through Ms. J think scull that she need to buy shoes. It took the shoe breaking to do this but hey, message received right? Lucky for us we found a "49" thus allowing us to make this a fun useful stop too.
Janis Joplin was the answer to one of the questions that took us to my dreaded Fisherman's Wharf. I really hate this place. It is like an instant sour mood settling on me. Doesn't matter that the sun is poking out.

Sing it again baby!

Karaoke. I guess It is something that everyone should do at some point. I am sure there is a reason why we are supposed to do this and yet I cannot seem for the life of me to know why. We go out a good little group that hit a sushi bar before going to sing. Since we had a minor in the group we went to a local Karaoke bar. It was odd. I want to say that it was fun but it really wasn’t that much.
Having my friends around regardless was, glad we hung out before. Getting up there in front of a bunch of strangers is weird. Seriously a bit embarrassing yet having a friend by my side makes it a lot better. All in all, it was a good night and a fun time.

Tuesday, July 20, 2010

Rant against the word "Ma'am"


Do I look like a Ma'am to you? That answer better be "No". While I know that people mean well and for it to be a form of respect. I am sorry it does not feel respectful. If anything I feel disrespected.
Even if people do look old enough, do you think they feel it? Heck No! They do not want to be reminded if they are older and worse they sure do now feel older. So how is that a good thing?
There are two group of people who are exempt or at least get slack in my book for this Ma'am rant. The first is from the south, its just part of the culture. As it is with the military and anyone associate heavily with it.
I know that when people say Ma'am they mean well, or at least not ill. I am sure they are trying to be nice, polite... and using manners. Yet to me and many others it is offensive. Making me feel like a relic.
I remember the first time I was called Ma'am I was thirteen years old, yes that is a 1 3, 13. I was ready to reach over the counter and slap the woman. Granted I have started getting grays when I was 13 or so but even so. I looked my age and never had been so pissed and ready to scream. It is 14 years later and the word still makes me grind my teeth.
If you are in customer service, heed my advice and don't use this word. You have no idea how it can make some people feel. Though that can be said about a lot of things. So maybe its more about watching your words and trying to step in their shoes.

Thursday, July 15, 2010

Retail Therapy Done Right: High Society

IF you remember my last blog, it was all about trying to kick Murph’s bad luck. While I didn’t quiet 100% successfully do it here, it worked for the rest of the week! I had an amazing girl Toniya who helped me. She had a great sense of fashion and really listened too. Knew I was on a budget and yet wanting to splurged so we went shopping in the sales racks.

I had already picked out a funky light blue top that can be dressed up, down and even go to work. So functional; too useful and unique of a shirt. I was wanting to splurge a bit more since I was so depressed from the previous store! We picked out dresses and some other tops.

She picked out one white dress that has butterflies and pleated jersey dress. (Pics to come soon hopefully.) It is something I’d never pick out, and yet looked amazing so sweet and carefree. It is an angelic dress that was a great fit. The other dress is the complete opposite side of the spectrum. One of the Salvage items she showed me, it is black with mesh, lace, gambits, and other fabrics. All black, ties up every which way short and totally punk rocker eat your heart out.(Pics to come.) Did I really just buy both of these two dresses at the same time? Yes, Yes I did.

To top it off she was great, working with me and listening. Had some great suggestion and service. The style of the store is unique. I loved that they buy a limited supply and try to carry rare designers. Wore the top out for a bit feeling better already, and wore it to work for real the next day. Everyone L-O-V-E-D it! Starting my week of right, this is why people do retail therapy.

Monday, July 12, 2010

Murph where are you.

Have you ever had a really bad day? Well try a bad couple of days, because I swear Murphy hanging around me somewhere. Everything has been going wrong. Being me, I get sucked into others drama trying to help. Well I need to learn to stop because I just end up with the short end of the stick.

This week has been the worst, I got locked out which isn’t the least of it. From the little things like people stealing and eating my lunch, to bigger ones of friends and work drama it all goes wrong. I am working like crazy and being pulled in every which way and not because of my needs everyone else. The harder I try the more it seems to get messed up. There is a lot of crap on every which way that I DON’T want to get into it and won’t.

So today is a day off and I try to kick the bad mojo that has been following me around. It starts out by myself promising call my dentist to start on fixing my aching tooth. Naturally I get a call back right away. She is amazing Ann Donnelly, DDS in my hood on 2827 Franklin St. feel free to call her, I truly love her. Call her at 415- 776- 1900. Well she snuck me in and saw what is going on and recommended me to a specialist. I leave on happier note feeling like I am taking care of myself and my luck is turning. Right?

Wrong! I decide to walk to where I am pet sitting, and go to do a bit of retail therapy thinking my budget would be around $70 right? I go to Ambiance the “Best in the Bay” and had the WORST experience. I walked around and was looking taking my time. Down in the dumps so trying to smile and keep my spirits up… do I get a smile or a hello? NO! I came in here to spend money to help myself feel better and instead I walk out feeling worse. How is that possible? To go into a store and walk out feeling bad not because they don’t have the item in, because they ignored you. I actually was so mad I called up and talked to the manger of operations and yelped. She said she was sending me something for me to give them another shot. Let’s see what happens right?

Well I did go to another store and spent way more than $70 I meant to, this of course being because I was in such a dis-hearted mood due to the poor service at the store before. I ended up spending $200.. EEK! But I am feeling quite happy and everything was on sale which helps. This is regardless if my bracelet broke while in the shop sending beads everywhere. It’s more pathetic when you realize that was the first time wearing it out. I told you Murphy is following me.

The shop was great though, Toniya has great taste and really works with you. I told her I am wanting to keep on a budget and she went straight to her favorite pieces on the sale rack. She helped me pick out one seriously hot black punk rocker dress by Salvage which was 30% off (they are the only store in SF who sells it) It was. The next two items were 60% off and thus too good to pass up on. The dress is totally her, I would have never picked it. It is a seriously sweet and fitted white dress with butterflies on it. I know butterflies, really! Plus to walk out with two dresses, one black and one white and both totally represent that spectrums color. Oh I can’t wait to wear them. I also grabbed a top that is great for work or to go out it is just really fun. In such a bad mood I change into the shirt and leave feeling happier, satisfied.

Wednesday, July 7, 2010

STRONG E1: VIP WineTasting 06/2010: Artesa

Getting everyone together was hard enough on its own but so worth it. The zipcar made it really easy and it was just a matter of picking people up. Once we did and were all together the fun could really begin. Napa is just so lovely and we had a sunny day. Everywhere there is love rows of green everything so perfect and neat. I usually am not a OCD clean neat girl but love watching the rows. How you can see perfect straight lines in the diagonals too. The drive is lovely but then you get welcomed into a relaxing world where water plays everywhere.

There is something about running water that is so relaxing. It really sets the mood of a tranquility, of another world. Anyone just looks around and with the views, the green, the blue of the water its just like a painting.
As we walk up the stairs, being able to choose from two, our eyes follow the water. This place is like art itself, no wonder it is called Artesa. So far it seems like a promising day as the car ride was full of laughter and good chatter.
We are greeted at the door by Ms. A a wonderful women who invited me and my friends to this great night. Ms. A was great, a wonderful educator in the vineyards and in wine tasting. She greeted us with a bottle of champagne as we started the tour.
The building is really interesting and quite green especially considering how old it is. They cut off the top of the mountain, dug in and created the cellars. The whole building is naturally with out air conditioning it regulates correctly to store the wine.
The Spanish are known for bringing the outside indoors with courtyards. I have to say it is something I love and the place is spacious and elegant without being stuffy or pretentious.
Ms. A told us a story of the owners as they were working and exploring a property they found a statue poking out of the creek. They pull it up, had it touched up and appraised. Found out that the statue did date back to the 1600's and donated it to a museum, but not before making replicas for their properties. To this day it is the only Madonna that has been found holding grapes.
The picture above is not a reflection as one cannot be photograph. Somehow quite by accident when they built this courtyard they manage to create a hologram. I really am not one to believe in divine interventions but that is pretty mystical. Wine makers finding the only Madonna of the grapes on their property, then having one of it's replicas creating a hologram. Hmm.
After a serene tour we sit down in our own private room looking out into the courtyard. As Ms. A starts to pour and explain to us the finer points of tasting. The swish of the wine to help open it up, allow the wine breath.
The smell of the wine is really interesting, trying to figure out what it is... even more interesting. How can wet stones be a smell?? It is. I fell in love with the reds, they were so smooth and well rounded. Ms. A was amazing, helping us figure out and distinguish the wines.
As we go through the flights, tasting and trying. We each settle on a glass that is our favorite and Ms. A reloaded us generously and continued to introduce us a bit before she had to part to pick up her poor kitty from the vet.
The special treatment was amazing, being introduced around and given the "insider's discount" of 33% off!!! You know we couldn't resist that and with our own tender Jesus, yes Jesus was his name. We were very well taken care of.
We proceeded to hang out, enjoy the sun and the view while we chatted amongst ourselves. Every so often one of us would get up with somebodies glass in hand too and go get a refill extension of our tasting from Jesus. The more I hang out with these girls the more I realize how cool they are. I can't believe that it is the first time for two of them and been such a long time for the other.
We finally decide that our grumbling tummies needed to be listened to and we start to head off. Of course this isn't before a bit of prancing and posing and being tipsy goofy girls. OK well three of us were! We piled into the car and off were went.
Driving around and using cell phones for GPS is so the way to go. I specially remember playing fire drill. Not because we wanted to run around the car at a stop light, but rather because of starting to feel car-sick. Let's face it if that is the case they do better in the front seat. Thanks for giving up the seat I really do appreciate it! Yet my home girl has always taken care of me, so not surprised she did here.
ZinValley was a great place to stop and eat; we were very thankful for the recommendation. They really were great and in good humor which helped keep our group flying high. It was wonderful to see friends all click and everyone blend. Who would have ever guess that many just met for the first time that day, not the waiters that is for sure! They all thought we were old hat friends.
More of everything kept coming, from drinks to food and then dessert. We laughed and talked and it is great. Heck one of my girls even stuck a feather in my hair, make sense since we were headed back to San Francisco.

All I know is that I have to do this again. Lets keep STRONG!