Tuesday, July 27, 2010
Scavanger Hunt
Sing it again baby!

Having my friends around regardless was, glad we hung out before. Getting up there in front of a bunch of strangers is weird. Seriously a bit embarrassing yet having a friend by my side makes it a lot better. All in all, it was a good night and a fun time.
Tuesday, July 20, 2010
Rant against the word "Ma'am"

Do I look like a Ma'am to you? That answer better be "No". While I know that people mean well and for it to be a form of respect. I am sorry it does not feel respectful. If anything I feel disrespected.
Even if people do look old enough, do you think they feel it? Heck No! They do not want to be reminded if they are older and worse they sure do now feel older. So how is that a good thing?
There are two group of people who are exempt or at least get slack in my book for this Ma'am rant. The first is from the south, its just part of the culture. As it is with the military and anyone associate heavily with it.
I know that when people say Ma'am they mean well, or at least not ill. I am sure they are trying to be nice, polite... and using manners. Yet to me and many others it is offensive. Making me feel like a relic.
I remember the first time I was called Ma'am I was thirteen years old, yes that is a 1 3, 13. I was ready to reach over the counter and slap the woman. Granted I have started getting grays when I was 13 or so but even so. I looked my age and never had been so pissed and ready to scream. It is 14 years later and the word still makes me grind my teeth.
If you are in customer service, heed my advice and don't use this word. You have no idea how it can make some people feel. Though that can be said about a lot of things. So maybe its more about watching your words and trying to step in their shoes.
Thursday, July 15, 2010
Retail Therapy Done Right: High Society
IF you remember my last blog, it was all about trying to kick Murph’s bad luck. While I didn’t quiet 100% successfully do it here, it worked for the rest of the week! I had an amazing girl Toniya who helped me. She had a great sense of fashion and really listened too. Knew I was on a budget and yet wanting to splurged so we went shopping in the sales racks.
I had already picked out a funky light blue top that can be dressed up, down and even go to work. So functional; too useful and unique of a shirt. I was wanting to splurge a bit more since I was so depressed from the previous store! We picked out dresses and some other tops.
She picked out one white dress that has butterflies and pleated jersey dress. (Pics to come soon hopefully.) It is something I’d never pick out, and yet looked amazing so sweet and carefree. It is an angelic dress that was a great fit. The other dress is the complete opposite side of the spectrum. One of the Salvage items she showed me, it is black with mesh, lace, gambits, and other fabrics. All black, ties up every which way short and totally punk rocker eat your heart out.(Pics to come.) Did I really just buy both of these two dresses at the same time? Yes, Yes I did.
To top it off she was great, working with me and listening. Had some great suggestion and service. The style of the store is unique. I loved that they buy a limited supply and try to carry rare designers. Wore the top out for a bit feeling better already, and wore it to work for real the next day. Everyone L-O-V-E-D it! Starting my week of right, this is why people do retail therapy.
Monday, July 12, 2010
Murph where are you.
Have you ever had a really bad day? Well try a bad couple of days, because I swear Murphy hanging around me somewhere. Everything has been going wrong. Being me, I get sucked into others drama trying to help. Well I need to learn to stop because I just end up with the short end of the stick.
This week has been the worst, I got locked out which isn’t the least of it. From the little things like people stealing and eating my lunch, to bigger ones of friends and work drama it all goes wrong. I am working like crazy and being pulled in every which way and not because of my needs everyone else. The harder I try the more it seems to get messed up. There is a lot of crap on every which way that I DON’T want to get into it and won’t.
So today is a day off and I try to kick the bad mojo that has been following me around. It starts out by myself promising call my dentist to start on fixing my aching tooth. Naturally I get a call back right away. She is amazing Ann Donnelly, DDS in my hood on 2827 Franklin St. feel free to call her, I truly love her. Call her at 415- 776- 1900. Well she snuck me in and saw what is going on and recommended me to a specialist. I leave on happier note feeling like I am taking care of myself and my luck is turning. Right?
Wrong! I decide to walk to where I am pet sitting, and go to do a bit of retail therapy thinking my budget would be around $70 right? I go to Ambiance the “Best in the Bay” and had the WORST experience. I walked around and was looking taking my time. Down in the dumps so trying to smile and keep my spirits up… do I get a smile or a hello? NO! I came in here to spend money to help myself feel better and instead I walk out feeling worse. How is that possible? To go into a store and walk out feeling bad not because they don’t have the item in, because they ignored you. I actually was so mad I called up and talked to the manger of operations and yelped. She said she was sending me something for me to give them another shot. Let’s see what happens right?
Well I did go to another store and spent way more than $70 I meant to, this of course being because I was in such a dis-hearted mood due to the poor service at the store before. I ended up spending $200.. EEK! But I am feeling quite happy and everything was on sale which helps. This is regardless if my bracelet broke while in the shop sending beads everywhere. It’s more pathetic when you realize that was the first time wearing it out. I told you Murphy is following me.
The shop was great though, Toniya has great taste and really works with you. I told her I am wanting to keep on a budget and she went straight to her favorite pieces on the sale rack. She helped me pick out one seriously hot black punk rocker dress by Salvage which was 30% off (they are the only store in SF who sells it) It was. The next two items were 60% off and thus too good to pass up on. The dress is totally her, I would have never picked it. It is a seriously sweet and fitted white dress with butterflies on it. I know butterflies, really! Plus to walk out with two dresses, one black and one white and both totally represent that spectrums color. Oh I can’t wait to wear them. I also grabbed a top that is great for work or to go out it is just really fun. In such a bad mood I change into the shirt and leave feeling happier, satisfied.
Wednesday, July 7, 2010
STRONG E1: VIP WineTasting 06/2010: Artesa

















All I know is that I have to do this again. Lets keep STRONG!